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What makes you different?

Last Updated: 17.06.2025 02:17

What makes you different?

Anxious to get a job, I chose to do what was socially recommended for me. So, I tried. Being a govt. servant. Failed. A Research Scholar. Didn’t make it. A Professor. Guess what?

Being different is being a mess, yet being okay with it.

Even if that means disappointing your parents and teachers for some time, but believe you’ll eventually make them feel proud.

Has anyone ever had sex with their cousin? How did it start, and would you do it again?

So, what actually makes us all different?

Don’t get a partner because you’re jealous of your friends.

Long story short, here I am. Being a writer. Doing things I’d always love to do. Sharing my experiences of what I learnt.

Why do subpar women think that they are nines and tens?

Honestly, there’s nothing that makes ‘me’ different.

Indeed, a number of other factors contribute to your uniqueness, but that’s for you to introspect.

Don’t go to the gym because it’s a fitness fad.

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Being different is being okay with failure, so you know what the dessert of a win tastes like.

Experiments: My life has been a group of experiments that failed to take off until I resorted to writing.

Until the day I choose to listen to myself. I let my subconscious go wherever it wanted me to go. It was not just in dreams I wanted to live, but in real life. Not allowing others to cloud my personality, my ability, my inclination towards philosophy, knack to motivate others, and my indifference towards others’ opinions.

How do I deal with autistic burnout/meltdown/shutdown when cooking?

Don’t drink because everybody does today.

I always yearned to go for government jobs because I had a few relatives already into it and doing well with money and security. And here is me, with an arts background, uncertain about what to choose.

Being different is being a weirdo. And being okay about it.

What is the typical mentality of the Indian society?

You know how all of this enlightenment came to me.

Agree?

Do anything and everything because you like it. You love it. Do the things that make you go crazy. Things you’d barter your breath for. Things that make your life a rainbow.

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I am an ordinary human being with the same body structure as you who are reading, you and I have the same material of what our bodies and brains are made up of.

I experimented. A lot. And now I know I don't need more trials of this kind. I’m writing this today at just the right place from the comfort of my home while it rains outside. While a cold breeze rings music to my senses.

So, keep on experimenting.

Are LGBT people accepted in Japan?

Neither I’m Tesla, who got poor grades in school, nor I’ve grown to invent electric current that powers many electronic devices today. Nor I’m an entrepreneur who is the idea behind the Tesla cars.

Everything has shaped me. Friends who gave me their pens and journals. Best friends I never made. Crush that made me write poems while he didn’t care. Romances I’ve missed. Opportunity to become an editor or a news correspondent I missed. I think all this has made me the writer I am.

I have always wanted to write things. Wrote poetry during my grad and reluctantly left it for preparation of a govt. exam because who’s got extra time for it.

Why does my crush always looks at me in a sad way whenever I talk with other boys, and if he catch me staring on him then he go and flirt with other girls and then check if I am looking at him?

Yes, I was not at all happy.

Take my word. You won’t regret it.

Not because people show it off and you have to follow the lead.

Ive been pretending to be okay and acting as normal as possible, but Im actually completely heartbroken after a recent breakup. Its painful and really affecting me, to the point where I cant concentrate at work, Ive lost my appetite, I cant sleep, and It feels as if my whole world has been turned upside down. I loved him so much. He said so many cruel things to me and it made me realize he must not have loved me the way I loved him, or he wouldnt have said such horrible things. How do I handle the heartbreak and why cant I accept that he didnt love me and just forget about him?

Experiences: What has happened to me? Have I led a normal life with two parents and two siblings? Yes. Breakups I’ve had. Friends I’ve made. School I have attended. Guides I’ve met. Places I’ve been.

He would have experienced the miracle called light. Maybe he got better food to eat. Then he got wounded. Then in search of balm, he travaled to the wilderness and found a party of rats, eaten to its heart’s content and danced the night out.

C’mon, it’s an opportunity to break the rules, stand out and become ONE of a kind.

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"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." - Oscar Wilde

Don’t choose to be an engineer just because it pays well.

Become different not according to the world, but according to what you like and what you don’t.

Tried everything. A well-paying corporate job, govt. exams. Nothing provided me with security. I didn’t have time to myself. Hustling was my name. Didn’t go to parties, travel or anything. Didn’t talk to friends.

Can you make it?

You can be fearful and still use it to tame your weaknesses and build your emotional strength.

Consider a rat who never came out of the hole fearing for his life. He stayed in the dark for years and died one day, unbeknownst.

Otherwise, thank you for reading. It was fun writing to you all. Hope it helped you in more ways than one.

All of it would have been different, and this life would mean something, at least for him.

P.S. What’s your idea of being different? Do you have a different point of view?

A govt. job could do it for me. Plus Money, plus security, plus prestige.

What makes you YOU.

What if he’d come outside?

I know being a writer is no different. But my journey is different. Its unique to me.

If you’ve read this far, let me tell you one more thing.

"Life is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the ride." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

To take out these experiments, accept the asymmetry of your emotions, your eccentricities, aspirations and thoughts for what they actually are. Instead of filtering it through the social system, recognize the difference and apply it in your life.

Not ignoring emotions because they can be destructive. Not underestimating your aspirations because society calls them second-rate.

Without experiments, is life worth it.

“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” - Lao Tzu